{"id":6,"date":"2026-07-24T17:47:34","date_gmt":"2026-07-24T17:47:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/?page_id=6"},"modified":"2026-07-24T18:27:38","modified_gmt":"2026-07-24T18:27:38","slug":"home","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/","title":{"rendered":"Home"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"kb-hero wp-block-drkb-hero\">\n\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-eyebrow\">PACT-Certified \u00b7 35 Years of Practice<\/p>\n\t\t<h1 class=\"kb-hero__title\">Sex therapy with a focus on the <em>sacred<\/em>.<\/h1>\n\t<div class=\"kb-hero__row\">\n\t\t<p class=\"kb-hero__lead\">I am a psychologist, sex therapist, trainer of therapists, and coach. These days I work only with committed couples grappling with \u201cthe how\u201d of satisfying sex \u2014 and of death \u2014 given what reality truly is.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"kb-hero__actions\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-kb-solid\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/retreats\/\">Ripening Retreats<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-kb-outline\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"#work\">The Work<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"kb-quote wp-block-drkb-testimonial\">\n\t<div class=\"kb-quote__inner\">\n\t\t<blockquote class=\"kb-quote__text\">\u201cA master clinician whose groundbreaking contributions are indispensable.\u201d<\/blockquote>\n\t\t<div class=\"kb-quote__meta\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-quote__desc\">Significantly enhancing therapeutic outcomes for couples striving for deeper, more meaningful connections.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-quote__name\">Stan Tatkin, PsyD MFT<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-quote__role\">Founder, the PACT Institute<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"kb-section wp-block-drkb-pillars\" id=\"work\">\n\t<div class=\"kb-section__head\">\n\t\t<h2 class=\"kb-h2\">The work I do<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-section__note\">Cutting-edge, PACT-certified couple therapy \u2014 for the people in the room, and the therapists who serve them.<\/p>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t<div class=\"kb-pillars\">\n<article class=\"kb-pillar wp-block-drkb-pillar\">\n\t<span class=\"kb-pillar__num\">01<\/span>\n\t<h3 class=\"kb-pillar__title\">PACT-certified couple therapy<\/h3>\n\t<p class=\"kb-pillar__body\">I was one of the original core faculty of the PACT Institute and instrumental in the evolution of their couple retreats and training programs.<\/p>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/about\/\" class=\"kb-link\">About Karen<\/a>\n\t<\/article>\n\n\n<article class=\"kb-pillar wp-block-drkb-pillar\">\n\t<span class=\"kb-pillar__num\">02<\/span>\n\t<h3 class=\"kb-pillar__title\">Sex therapy with a focus on the sacred<\/h3>\n\t<p class=\"kb-pillar__body\">I work with committed couples grappling with the how of satisfying sex \u2014 and of death \u2014 given what reality truly is.<\/p>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"#work\" class=\"kb-link\">More info<\/a>\n\t<\/article>\n\n\n<article class=\"kb-pillar wp-block-drkb-pillar\">\n\t<span class=\"kb-pillar__num\">03<\/span>\n\t<h3 class=\"kb-pillar__title\">Expanding erotic capacities<\/h3>\n\t<p class=\"kb-pillar__body\">The Ripening Model of Secure Erotic Functioning, run as personalized retreats for couples truly ready to do the work.<\/p>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/retreats\/\" class=\"kb-link\">Ripening Retreats<\/a>\n\t<\/article>\n\n\n<article class=\"kb-pillar wp-block-drkb-pillar\">\n\t<span class=\"kb-pillar__num\">04<\/span>\n\t<h3 class=\"kb-pillar__title\">Professional training for therapists<\/h3>\n\t<p class=\"kb-pillar__body\">I teach therapists how to skillfully apply PACT to even the most complex issues \u2014 individually, in consult groups, and in trainings.<\/p>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"#work\" class=\"kb-link\">For clinicians<\/a>\n\t<\/article>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"kb-feature wp-block-drkb-feature\">\n\t<div class=\"kb-feature__inner\">\n\t\t<div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-eyebrow kb-eyebrow--dark\">The Ripening Model<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"kb-feature__title\">Become the lovers you have longed to be.<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-feature__text\">Join us on a private retreat, designed just for your couple, and ripen your capacity for pleasure and deep connection. My new application of PACT \u2014 the Ripening Model of Secure Erotic Functioning \u2014 is for couples truly ready to expand their erotic capacities.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-kb-light\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/retreats\/\">Learn more<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"kb-feature__media\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/storytelling-image-of-a-multiethnic-senior-couple-2023-11-27-04-51-19-utc.webp)\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"kb-section wp-block-drkb-tracks\">\n\t<div class=\"kb-section__head kb-section__head--tight\">\n\t\t<h2 class=\"kb-h2\">Free guided practices<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-section__tag\">Listen anytime<\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t<div class=\"kb-tracks\">\n<div class=\"kb-track wp-block-drkb-track\" data-track>\n\t<div class=\"kb-track__head\">\n\t\t<button type=\"button\" class=\"kb-track__play\" aria-label=\"Play\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-track__icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\">&#9654;&#65038;<\/span>\n\t\t<\/button>\n\t\t<div>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-track__tag\">Guided Practice<\/p>\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"kb-track__title\">Growing Erotic Skills with Your Person<\/h3>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n\t<div>\n\t\t<div class=\"kb-track__bar\" role=\"progressbar\" aria-label=\"Growing Erotic Skills with Your Person\" tabindex=\"0\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"kb-track__fill\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"kb-track__time\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-track__cur\">0:00<\/span>\n\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-track__dur\">0:00<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<audio class=\"kb-track__audio\" src=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Growing_erotic_skills_w_your_person.mp3\" preload=\"metadata\"><\/audio>\n\t<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"kb-track wp-block-drkb-track\" data-track>\n\t<div class=\"kb-track__head\">\n\t\t<button type=\"button\" class=\"kb-track__play\" aria-label=\"Play\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-track__icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\">&#9654;&#65038;<\/span>\n\t\t<\/button>\n\t\t<div>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-track__tag\">Guided Practice<\/p>\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"kb-track__title\">Cultivating Erotic Energy<\/h3>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n\t<div>\n\t\t<div class=\"kb-track__bar\" role=\"progressbar\" aria-label=\"Cultivating Erotic Energy\" tabindex=\"0\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"kb-track__fill\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"kb-track__time\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-track__cur\">0:00<\/span>\n\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-track__dur\">0:00<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<audio class=\"kb-track__audio\" src=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Cultivating_Erotic_Energy__2.mp3\" preload=\"metadata\"><\/audio>\n\t<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"kb-essays wp-block-drkb-essays\" id=\"essays\">\n\t<div class=\"kb-essays__inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"kb-essays__head\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"kb-h2\">Writing &amp; reflections<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/\" class=\"kb-link\">All essays<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"kb-essays__grid\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/?p=17\" class=\"kb-essay\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-essay__media\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/The-First-30-Seconds-1024x576.jpg)\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-essay__date\">Oct 2024<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"kb-essay__title\">The First 30 Seconds: How PACT Can Help Couples with Sexual Encounters<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-essay__excerpt\">PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) helps couples like Bob and Sandra navigate differences in sexual desire by slowing down and understanding\u2026<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/?p=15\" class=\"kb-essay\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-essay__media\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/When-a-Couple-Desires-More-Intimacy-1024x576.jpg)\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-essay__date\">Oct 2024<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"kb-essay__title\">When a Couple Desires More Intimacy<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-essay__excerpt\">Helping couples enhance their sensual connection by focusing on sensuality rather than sexual performance. Key to this approach is differentiation, where each\u2026<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/?p=13\" class=\"kb-essay\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-essay__media\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Beyond-the-Ick-Factor-Deeper-Healing-for-Issues-of-Sexuality-1024x576.jpeg)\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"kb-essay__date\">Oct 2024<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"kb-essay__title\">Beyond the Ick Factor: Deeper Healing for Issues of Sexuality<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-essay__excerpt\">Couples seeking therapy for sexual issues often have deeper, underlying problems like the \u201cick factor\u201d\u2014a repulsion to a partner\u2019s smell, taste, or\u2026<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"kb-contact wp-block-drkb-newsletter\" id=\"contact\">\n\t<div class=\"kb-contact__inner\">\n\t\t<div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-eyebrow kb-eyebrow--dark\">Stay in touch<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"kb-contact__title\">The Ripening Retreats mailing list<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-contact__text\">Get the latest news, and be the first to hear about upcoming retreats, trainings, and special offerings.<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<form class=\"kb-form\" data-newsletter action=\"\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"kb-form__row\">\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"fname\" placeholder=\"First name\" aria-label=\"First name\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"lname\" placeholder=\"Last name\" aria-label=\"Last name\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<input type=\"email\" name=\"email\" placeholder=\"Email\" aria-label=\"Email\" required \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"url\" class=\"kb-form__hp\" tabindex=\"-1\" autocomplete=\"off\" aria-hidden=\"true\" \/>\n\t\t\t<button type=\"submit\" class=\"kb-form__submit\">Subscribe<\/button>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"kb-form__status\" role=\"status\" aria-live=\"polite\" hidden><\/p>\n\t\t<\/form>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-6","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/6","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/6\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27,"href":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/6\/revisions\/27"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/demokaren.royarzun.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}